Okay I got there following generated key
Key:
getcontactsasync|/contact-folter||sos-dedev-de-gtrx|de-de
and following dependencies generated by that code above
documentid|40069
documentid|40068
documentid|40067
cms.documenttype|byname|sos.contact
node|sos-dedev-de-gtrx|/contact-folter
node|sos-dedev-de-gtrx|/contact-folter|childnodes
And did manage to update the code to get a dependency key not as node|sos-dedev-de-gtrx|/contact-folter|childnodes but as nodes|sos-dedev-de-gtrx|/contact-folter|all
documentid|40069
documentid|40068
documentid|40067
cms.documenttype|byname|sos.contact
node|sos-dedev-de-gtrx|/contact-folter
nodes|sos-dedev-de-gtrx|/contact-folter|all
But when change one of the items in the /contact-folter the cache does not update when having nodes|sos-dedev-de-gtrx|/contact-folter|all as dependency