If you are using ASP.NET Core then none of the links you provided will be relevant.
The first link is for Portal Engine, which is not supported in Kentico Xperience 13
The second link is for Preview Mode only, which is not what is used when normally visiting a page on the site (whether it is in an iframe or not).
The third link also details a setting that is relevant to Preview mode only:
When set to false, the key disables the Content Security Policy (CSP) headers that specify the frame-ancestors policy for the HTTP responses of preview mode requests.
Kentico Xperience doesn't apply any CSP headers to non-preview page responses by default (this can be changed by adding them with ASP.NET Core middleware)
Like Brenden mentioned, there is another place that iframe embedding can be prevented and that is in the application hosting the iframe. You will need to make sure it doesn't have CSP headers that are interfering with embedding the Kentico Xperience site.