Hi,
I would also like to add some more information here which I already sent over the e-mail to your colleague.
As you can see on our system requirements page, recommended memory is 125MB+ - www.kentico.com/Download/System-Requirements.aspx. But it also depends on the content of the site (static text vs. dynbamic content), traffic, user's behavior, system and web parts settings etc. If the site has a big traffic, it is usual that the application uses 1GB of memory (with caching options etc.). If yor application pool has only 80MB of allocated memory, this is too few and it will cause application restarts. I would recommed to look for another hosting with more resources available. You can aslo go through the links below to see how to optimize the
CMS:
devnet.kentico.com/docs/devguide/sql_queries_debugging.htm
devnet.kentico.com/docs/devguide/threads_debugging.htm
devnet.kentico.com/Blogs/Martin-Hejtmanek/January-2010/Debugging-options-in-Kentico-CMS-5-0.aspx
devnet.kentico.com/Blogs/Martin-Hejtmanek/August-2008/Performance-of-Kentico-CMS.aspx
devnet.kentico.com/Blogs/Martin-Hejtmanek/October-2009/Webinar-2---Performance-optimization-and-caching-i.aspx
devnet.kentico.com/docs/devguide/caching_options.htm
devnet.kentico.com/Blogs/Martin-Hejtmanek/April-2009/Deep-Dive---Kentico-CMS-Caching.aspx
devnet.kentico.com/Blogs/Martin-Hejtmanek/January-2010/Optimization-tip--Write-better-code,-disable-Outpu.aspx
devnet.kentico.com/Blogs/Martin-Hejtmanek/December-2009/Optimization-tip--Speed-up-your-images-and-files.aspx
devnet.kentico.com/Blogs/Martin-Hejtmanek/December-2009/Tip--Is-your-menu-and-controls-cache-settings-effi.aspx
www.kevinleary.net/testing-page-load-speed-with-firebug
Best regards,
Juraj Ondrus