The design is controlled by CSS styles included in your CSS stylesheet for the given site. The following figures show the messaging web parts' CSS classes:

 

My messages:

 

 

Inbox:

 

 

Outbox:

 

 

Contact list:

 

 

Ignore list:

 

 

Send message:

 

 

View message:

 

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